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Dec 30. 2024
카지노 게임 and ISFJ
Beautiful gift from God!
People tend to unite when there is an external threat, but once that threat is gone and peace returns, internal conflicts often lead to division.
My husband is an 카지노 게임 and I am an ISFJ, so we have very different personalities.
While we didn’t understand these differences at the time, we now realize that conflicts can arise from differing perspectives.
Of course, during difficult times, we didn’t have the luxury to think about these differences.
However, when things became more relaxed, individual needs and interests grew, and expectations towards 카지노 게임 other increased. When those expectations were unmet, understanding 카지노 게임 other became difficult, leading to a breakdown in communication and growing distance.
Understanding these negative patterns that can occur within a family can help us create a more wonderful family through better communication and understanding.
God is truly an amazing matchmaker. This has been especially evident in 카지노 게임 own life.
Even though we married under challenging circumstances and had to live apart, we didn’t have the luxury to deeply feel or address our differences. Our biggest challenge was finding a way to live together as a family.
The time we spent training in Singapore provided great comfort and rest to our family, who had longed for such a solution. During this time, we became more focused on our individual needs.
I began to expect compensation from my husband for the struggles I endured alone, and I found myself becoming increasingly upset by his actions. Moreover, observing the families of American missionaries living nearby—seeing their husbands’ kind words, affectionate behavior as couples, and their joyful interactions with their children—made me feel quite envious.
One afternoon, my husband and I had a minor disagreement that hurt both of us. We sat at opposite ends of the bed, 카지노 게임 trying to calm down. Suddenly, our three-year-old daughter, who had just woken up,
walked over and said,
“Rejoice always and give thanks in all circumstances.”
We were so surprised that we called her, but she said nothing and went back to her bed to sleep. My husband and I were shocked. It felt as though God was watching over us. We were embarrassed by our inability to control our emotions over such a small issue.
Through advice from a missionary I met at a prayer meeting, I learned that 카지노 게임 husband’s strong emotional expressions were rooted in deep psychological insecurity. Understanding this and providing reassurance could lead to a change in our relationship. I realized that 카지노 게임 husband wasn’t attacking me or resenting our marriage; rather, his feelings were expressions of his inner struggles.
On the rooftop parking lot of our building, there was a small table and chairs where 카지노 게임 family would sit and have dinner. During these meals, I saw families communicating respectfully and gently with 카지노 게임 other, and children eating politely.
In the evenings, I often saw fathers playing and exercising with their children. The moments of fun, such as throwing water balloons, 카지노 게임 truly joyful. Although initially, I thought, “How can children throw water balloons at their fathers?” I soon became immersed in the happy atmosphere.
Our family also began eating dinner at the table next to the parking lot every evening, greeting neighbors, sharing food, and learning about communal living.
Every evening, after putting the children to bed, my husband and I would have deep conversations for over two hours, sharing about our childhoods and faith. This process helped us deepen our understanding and love for 카지노 게임 other.
Beyond our mission as missionaries, we realized how important it is for couples to love, encourage, and build 카지노 게임 other up. We came to understand that loving and sacrificing for 카지노 게임 other is essential to our relationship. Over time, it became quite natural for us to call 카지노 게임 other "Honey," give hugs, encourage 카지노 게임 other, and share small gestures of affection.
Living with mature role models was a great blessing for our family,
and these encounters allowed us to grow significantly.
