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by 농구하는회계사 Dec 09. 2024

카지노 게임 사이트 Is Easy

But not if you're trying to do well


(Written on 9.26.2023)

Today, I came across a post on Instagram that said “카지노 게임 사이트 is only hard for good parents.” I agree with that sentence 200%, so obviously I re-posted it. I’m not trying to brag that I’m a good parent, but the statement is just so true. When my wife is out and I spend a day with my 3 girls, I make plans. I decide what time I will give them “free time” which in our family means time watching something on their laptops or iPad, and I try to limit it to 1.5 hours. I try to find something to do together, or places where we can all be physically active. I have said to N a few times that one of the easiest things I can do is to let them watch all day. Because when they watch something, I can basically have “free time” as well. But knowing that spending too much time on screen is bad, and also “not” knowing “how” bad the consequences are, I just can’t do that. Kids absorb everything they see and hear. It would be good if we can “cover all grounds” in terms of what is good, what is bad, and how things are supposed to be. But that’s practically impossible. And the areas we don’t specifically teach our kids, they will learn it somewhere else, and more often than not, it will come from the stuff they watch. When I say “areas”, it can be anything, such as “how one should interact with his/her peers or siblings” or “at what age, is it ok to have a boyfriend” and etc.

I try to read what 카지노 게임 사이트 girls read or TV shows they watch whenever I get a chance. And I have noticed that a lot of the families in the stories include step-parents. I understand that divorces are just so common these days and the writers of the stories wanted to make it realistic. Maybe they wanted to deliver the message that it’s perfectly normal to have divorced parents. I’m not saying they are wrong. But I worry that 카지노 게임 사이트 girls would start imagining 카지노 게임 사이트 wife and I getting divorced. I want 카지노 게임 사이트 kids to know that our home is the safest place on earth and that our family is one thing that will never be broken or damaged. And when they grow up and get married, I want them to think the same way about the families they will build.

카지노 게임 사이트 parents got divorced when I was in middle school. And even now in 카지노 게임 사이트 40s, I have to experience the inconveniences that stem out of 카지노 게임 사이트 parents’ separation. I think that’s why building a perfect family became one of 카지노 게임 사이트 top priorities in life. Josephine was not from a divorced family, but she was the same as to how much she values family over anything, and I think we came to be so sure about getting married to each other when we learned that our value of family aligned squarely. Family over friends, family over career, family over wealth, family over anything, period.


Giving love is the perfect solution, some might say. What does “giving love” look like? My dad loved me, and I’m pretty sure he still does, but the way he expressed the love was wrong in most ways. Did his love matter more, or his expression of the love? I concluded that it’s the latter. Loving is so easy. It’s difficult to not love my girls. But expressing it in a way that will make them feel loved and benefit them is a daunting task. 카지노 게임 사이트 is really hard. If I didn’t care about my influence or lack of it on my girls, this whole 카지노 게임 사이트 thing would be a piece of cake.

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